
"If a guy asks me to dance, are you okay with it?" I ask M. "Yes, just watch your drink," my hubby of 15 years replies. "Okay, will do." I take a deep breath in nervous anticipation of my night out with the girls.
Now some private night time shopping at Colette's on Second Street, I can do. Sipping champagne and encouraging girlfriends "Yes! Yes! That looks great on you", I can do. But it is the second happening of our birthday party night out that has my stomach a little tied in knots: dancing at The Lynwood.
The Lynwood is not one of my usual haunts. I'm glad I'll be with 5 other gals - there's safety in numbers, and besides, when the average age of your group is 40 and some, guys at a pub know you aren't looking to be picked up - don't they?
At The Lynwood we make a stir. We walk through the doors and - everyone turns to look. I hold back and slip behind Betty. With Alberta confidence to match her pink cowgirl boots, she crosses the darkened room to a spot near the back, close to the pool tables. The barman comes to take our order at the table. He's all gentleman.
"What can I get you ladies?" He looks at Betty.
"A honey brown," she orders.
Yes, that will do.
I order my lager just as Betty did, "A honey brown, please."
When at the Lynwood ...
Jules orders tea and the barman doesn't skip a beat. "Tea, yip, we can get that for you. Would you like milk and sugar with that?"
A couple of sips into our drinks and we do what we came here for: we fill the dance floor. Our fun is contagious and others join in, as couples or solo. Even the band is enjoying having us on the floor. The band leader asks more than once, "Do you girls have another one in you?"
How old do you think we are? We're turning this place on its head aren't we? A young stud dances the night away with us. He dances with one of his dates while the other sulks at the table. He looks left out whenever we take a break from the dance floor.
It's getting late and some of us have to work tomorrow, even though it is Saturday. We head for the door and I take a last twirl on the dance floor as we leave. The young buck struts behind us dismayed, "Where are you going - you're the most fun in the place!" Not bad for a group of mid-life girls who still know how to have some good clean fun.